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Southwest PA Says NO MORE is a growing community of organizations and individuals who are working to end domestic and sexual violence.

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Paul Mulbah of UPMC Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh Says No More

Alexandra Brooks of Domestic Violence Services of Southwestern PA Says NO MORE

Rhonda Fleming of WC&S Says NO MORE

Leon Hoffman of Ernst & Young Says NO MORE

George Fleming of Allegheny Family Network Says NO MORE

Mayor Peduto Says NO MORE

Leroy Ball of Koppers Says NO MORE

Fourth Annual Father’s Day Pledge Event Recap

Fourth Annual Father’s Day Pledge Event Highlights

NO MORE K-12 Speaking Out

Coaching Boys Into Men 101

Bhola Dhungana Says NO MORE

Ray Carter of WPXI-TV Says NO MORE

Ray Betler of Wabtec Corporation Says NO MORE

Dr. Gary Cuccia Says NO MORE

Third Annual Father’s Day Pledge Event

2017 Father’s Day Pledge Event Highlights

2016-17: A Year of Voices in Prevention

Chris McAneny Wants a Better World for All of Us

Grant Oliphant: We Carry This Action With Us

Charlie Batch Promotes CBIM

NCJW and the Silent Witness Initiative

MVPs Live the Pledge

The JCC Takes Action to End Violence

José Garth Says ‘NO MORE’

Patrick Gallagher Speaks about Campus Sexual Assault

2nd Annual Father’s Day Pledge Signing Event

Father’s Day Pledge 2016 Highlights

Pirates Say “I Do” to Healthy Relationships

A Year of Prevention in Action

Kristy Trautmann sees a future where people will always say speak out if they see disrespect or abuse. And that will change everything.

Grant Oliphant: Manhood is about lifting people up

There are many different ways to be a man, but there’s only one way to treat women: with respect, dignity, and equality. ‪

Rev. Darnell O. Leonard: Men must engage each other

Violence against women is not a women’s problem. This is a problem in every neighborhood, in every community, and it’s OUR problem.

Laura Karet: People can’t change the world if they don’t feel safe

Reverend Richard Freeman “Let’s be better men”

Superintendent Johnson: stopping violence against women begins with young men

Kristy Trautmann knows that we can end violence against women. It starts by believing that we can.

Pittsburgh leaders pledge NO MORE violence against women

Voices of Men: Tony Porter

WPXI Says “Men, get involved”

WPXI says “No More”

An important message from Pittsburgh’s corporate and civic leaders to you

Southwest PA Says NO MORE Launch Video

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On average more than three women a day are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends in the U.S.

According to the U.S. Surgeon General, domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women in the United States. The FBI reports that 32% of female homicide victims are killed by their intimate partners.

1 in 4

Nearly one in four women in the U.S. reports experiencing violence by a current or former spouse or boyfriend at some point in her life.

More than 1 in 3 women (35.6%) and more than 1 in 4 men (28.5%) in the United States have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime. Among victims of intimate partner violence, more than 1 in 3 women experienced multiple forms of rape, stalking, or physical violence; 92.1% of male victims experienced physical violence alone, and 6.3% experienced physical violence and stalking


Women are much more likely than men to be victimized by a current or former intimate partner.

More than half (51.1%) of female victims of rape reported being raped by an intimate partner and 40.8% by an acquaintance; for male victims, more than half (52.4%) reported being raped by an acquaintance and 15.1% by a stranger.

1 in 3

Approximately one in three adolescent girls in the United States is a victim of physical, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner.

One in three adolescents in the U.S. is a victim of physical, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner, a figure that far exceeds rates of other types of youth violence. Nearly 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year. Girls and young women between the ages of 16 and 24 experience the highest rate of intimate partner violence — almost triple the national average.

It's time to end domestic violence and sexual assault in our region.

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Lenny Orbovich – Carrick High School

Carrick High School head wrestling and assistant football coach Lenny Orbovich sees the importance of educating his athletes about respecting women through Coaching Boys Into Men (CBIM). Years of character-building coaching with his team has yielded positive results: “I hear the boys talking about our discussions outside of practice, and that’s how I know CBIM is making a difference.” CBIM provides coaches and athletes the opportunity to talk about healthy relationships, social media, and how to be a positive bystander in sports and in school. “As a coach, I see my players as real people. I want them to achieve success on the field and …

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Finding Light in the Darkness

By Kristy Trautmann These feel like dark times for many – less daylight, more cold weather, and much fear and sadness in the wake of violence and tragedy. In the coming weeks many faith traditions will celebrate light and hope, and we wish you peace and comfort throughout the holidays. But everyone who has lit a flame in the darkness knows that fire both brings light and amplifies shadows. We can in turn be mesmerized by dancing candlelight and be startled by the oversized, sometimes menacing shadows cast by its brightness.  Our collective work to prevent violence and to promote safe and healthy relationships requires …

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Ryan Reitz – Jeannette High School

Assistant football coach Ryan Reitz has dedicated years to coaching male athletes in his district because he knows how impactful coaches can be in young people’s lives. He recently began implementing Coaching Boys Into Men (CBIM) with his team at Jeannette High School. CBIM is a character-building curriculum, consisting of 12 structured conversations that teach athletes life lessons they can carry beyond athletics. Each 15 minute conversation helps to empower athletes with skills to be positive roles models for their peers in school. Ryan recognized that Coaching Boys into Men could strengthen his efforts to lead and motivate his players- two tasks he feels are …

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Men & #MeToo – One Year Later

By Kristy Trautmann We are experiencing a watershed moment in the movement to address violence against women. Fifty years ago, we did not talk about domestic violence, sexual assault or sexual harassment.  And now gender-based violence is in the headlines nearly every day: Bill Cosby, campus sexual assault, Larry Nassar and the testimony of Olympic gymnasts, Harvey Weinstein, the #MeToo movement, sexual misconduct in the Catholic Church… We now recognize these forms of abuse as serious and pervasive societal issues. Three years ago, Southwest PA Says No More was founded to support the regional movement to prevent domestic violence and sexual assault. Across our region, …

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